About me and
The Confidence Stature method
Real confidence! Simpler and quicker than you imagine.
-and I’ll guide you all the way.
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Who Am I, and Why Should You Listen?
I’ve spent more than 15 years in the Norwegian Armed Forces and the police, where discipline, resilience, and leadership were part of everyday life. Today I work as a Head of Security, a role that demands responsibility, trust, and the ability to lead under pressure. I hold formal leadership training, have educated other leaders, and along the way I’ve completed a wide range of courses and certifications. In parallel, I’ve worked for over a decade as an instructor, coach, and personal trainer focused on weight loss – helping people change not only their bodies but also their mindset. These experiences taught me how powerful real transformation can be when you combine structured methods, practical training, and mental strength.
Confident Stature is the result of everything I’ve learned along the way. I don’t believe in tricks, quick fixes, or telling people to “just fake it.” What I teach is grounded in neuroscience, psychology, and the proven science of neuroplasticity. That means the changes aren’t temporary, they rewire the brain so confidence becomes natural and lasting. My approach is personal, straightforward, and built on decades of real-world leadership and coaching experience, and that’s why I know it works.
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The Truth About Confidence & Why Hacks Always Fail
Most people try tricks, pickup lines, or body language hacks to look more confident. The problem is simple: low confidence always shines through. You might hide it for a few minutes, but it’s impossible to keep up for long. And honestly, do you really want to go through life pretending to be someone you’re not?
Think about it, if you force yourself to walk in a “confident” way because someone told you that’s the trick, your eyes, your face, your hands, even the way your fingers move will all reveal the truth. Others pick up on it instantly. The result? You don’t just look insecure - you look foolish. It’s often better to look like someone with low confidence than someone desperately faking it.
The advantage of my method is that it doesn’t teach you to act confident - it actually makes you confident. Step by step, your brain rewires itself through neuroplasticity. That means you’ll naturally start walking like a confident person, speaking with calm certainty, and holding eye contact without forcing it and so on. Others can feel the difference. Real confidence is magnetic - and people respond to it.
Unlike tricks that fade the moment you get nervous, this is a lasting shift in how your brain and body work together. You won’t need to remember lines, poses, or “hacks.” Confidence stops being something you perform and becomes something you live.
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What progress can you realistically expect?
Weeks 1–2 — noticeable shift (mostly you feel it first)
You catch yourself holding eye contact a little longer without looking away.
Small talk (cashier, barista, hairdresser) feels less threatening and you can stay in the moment.
You’re a bit more willing to say what you actually think, without over-editing every word.
(These first changes come fast because your brain starts rewiring itself as soon as you practice consistently.)
Weeks 3–4 — visible behavior change (others start to notice)
Conversations with women flow more naturally; you tease and flirt occasionally without forcing it.
Fewer interruptions; your voice and pacing are steadier in groups and meetings.
You recover faster if you stumble - less rumination, quicker reset.
(At this stage, your new habits take over. Small steps add up and social situations begin to feel easier.)
Weeks 4–6 — social feedback compounds the effect
People comment that you seem different, without knowing why.
Your posture, eye contact and timing feel natural, not performed.
In rooms, you’re noticed; on the street, more glances; more women signal interest or make contact.
(By now, confidence shows naturally. What once felt forced has become automatic, and people around you can see the difference.)
Weeks 6–8+ — integrated identity shift
You feel like “yourself” but steadier: confident with women, at work, in meetings, and in front of groups.
Starting or planning dates feels normal; you’re collecting numbers without overthinking it.
Confidence shows up across contexts because the underlying response patterns have changed, not because you’re acting.
Real confidence isn’t about tricks or pretending. It’s about rewiring your brain so it naturally responds with calm, presence, and strength. That’s what Confident Stature is built on: science, experience, and methods that actually work.
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Science-Based Methods
No tricks, no empty pep talks. Every step is grounded in neuroscience, psychology, and proven training methods that deliver real results.
Changes You Can Feel
From the first weeks you’ll notice shifts in eye contact, presence, and how others respond to you.
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